these are the messages he sent to me using the email system on his board.. my replies are not included.

RE:  rss and stuff From:
admin

Message Sent:
Sun Nov 04 2007, 08:52AM

 Delete meet me for coffee of drink this week so we can talk. you have much insight to offer me on web stuff including rss
 

Re: YOUR POSTING From:
admin

Message Sent:
Fri Nov 02 2007, 09:08PM 

Delete help me get the TER girls here
Reburtal no problem I will handle the contact personally
RSS feed from Craig list I don't think so. I want no relationship with the shit postings on CL. They have to come here to sign up and post
by our rules
look at the reviews. They don't need to be graphic to make a good review
I stress independent and no agency every chance I get It is in the news postings and the welcome message to guys and gals
Agencies are blocked from the system

Thanks for the dialog

Re: posting From:
admin

Message Sent:
Wed Feb 13 2008, 12:58PM

Delete The last time you and I had an e mail exchange you pissed me off so bad I locked you out. Now time has passed. If you want to discuss and make peace I am open too it. Otherwise I think it is best we should continue to go our separate ways. It is your call I am extending the olive branch.

BTW that happened months ago. This is the first time you have tried to log in since then?
 

the email exchange that pissed him off so bad he had to kick me off his board.     this exchange followed the messages he sent me on his board asking for advice on rss feeds and help getting the ter girls on his board.
 


"Admin+phxasp.com" <admin@phxasp.com> wrote:
Ana
Can I meet with you this weekend some time. I'll buy lunch or drinks
I have some web and escort stuff (non web on the escort) I would like your
input and opinions on.

Mikez
Admin
858-967-1600

 

On 11/8/07 2:40 PM, "ana" <ana_bang_bang@yahoo.com> wrote:
ok we'll have to play it by ear

 

"Admin+phxasp.com" <admin@phxasp.com> wrote:
Re: Meeting you this week end Great e mail me your phone number so I can txt or call you Saturday afternoon
I am xxxxxxxxx
mike

 

On 11/8/07 6:03 PM, "ana" <ana_bang_bang@yahoo.com> wrote:
its actually at the top of every page but i am not sure of how u were thinking of compensating me so i thought you should familiarize yourself with my outcall rate <http://www.anapanties.com/anabangbang_rates.html>




"Admin+phxasp.com" <admin@phxasp.com> wrote:
Re: Meeting you this week end I was thinking this was a social call and I would compensate you with lunch etc. You do socially interact don’t you?


 

On 11/8/07 8:13 PM, "ana" <ana_bang_bang@yahoo.com> wrote:
yes i do.
thats what escorting is.

i stopped doing free lunches 4 years ago when my car got repossessed.
and now i drive a car that was bought in full with cash.

the problem with most escorts is that they let personal shit fuck up their biz.
i dont have personal relationships .. not ever.

men are clients. sometimes clients are friends but they are always clients.
women are my coworkers and sometimes my employees.

thats the way i like it
i have fun making money.
i dont have fun spending time with a guy who thinks im worth nothing.




"Admin+phxasp.com" <admin@phxasp.com> wrote:
Re: Meeting you this week end Ana
I am sorry to hear that statement. It is about a serious social issue that needs to be solved and it revolves around escorts not guys. I just wanted to have a valuable female opinion. I guess I was mistaken to think you would be interested in furthering the betterment of the ladies community. Seek my advice else ware
Thank you for your comment and sorry to trouble you. BTW what is the opposite of misogynist? Rhetorical question

BTW since you have female employees are you running an agency?


I’ll pass.
 



On 11/8/07 8:43 PM, "ana" <ana_bang_bang@yahoo.com> wrote:


ask me the question
what do you need my opinion about

i give enough of my time '
dont make judgements upon me it doesnt work with me
i have already judged myself and i know who i am

i helped you with your banners did i not ?

 


"Admin+phxasp.com" <admin@phxasp.com> wrote:
Re: Meeting you this week end Too sensitive an issue to put in writing in the e mail
Can’t do it. Thanks for the help with the banners it was appreciated and others helped as well.
I am not judging anyone


 

On 11/8/07 9:08 PM, "ana" <ana_bang_bang@yahoo.com> wrote:




2 things

1. http://www.anapanties.com/album/anabangbang_pic7.html
this is the link that goes to the pic with the caption "lunch is such a pain in my ass, i'd rather eat myself"
fyi, i dont like being out in public very much

2. www.readnotify.com
36 bux a year, send self destructing emails, also track all your emails, you know who opened them, where they are, how many times it was opened, whether they printed it, whether they forwarded it and who it got forwarded to.

best 36 bux i ever spent



 


"Admin+phxasp.com" <admin@phxasp.com> wrote:
Re: Meeting you this week end How about a phone call Saturday when my anesthesia wears off. Is that a good compromise?
I don’t care about the 36 dollars but I am a MAC guy since I sold my Microsoft based engineering company.
My MAC life is kept pretty simple



 


On 11/9/07 12:06 AM, "ana" <ana_bang_bang@yahoo.com> wrote:

i dont hate men.. i love men.
thats why i do what i do.


i built cheyenna's site (3 of them), demi's site, velvet's site, cherish's site, aria's site ... i even pay for their hosting and with the exception of cherish, i never even met them before i built their sites ... but i did their sites because i sensed they needed help so dont fucking tell me that i dont do anything for the ladies.. the only thing i ever asked from them is to let me put my banners on their sites.

i give 100x more than i take from this world

but i choose what i give... i dont let people demand it of me and i resent people (male or female) who expect it from me because i never expect anyone to do anything for me..

you, of all people know that we are compensated for our time so why would you ask for my time and not offer to compensate me for it ?
i realize that other people helped you with your site too but im guessing they knew you.
how can you imply im a man hater ?
if i was a man hater, i probably wouldnt help out men that i dont know.

maybe its my fault for giving my time so freely to help people that they may think they can expect it from me.. that is something i never considered so i apologize for giving you that impression.

yes mike i run an agency and i told you that at cherish's house.
i run it separately from my indy biz
if you feel that you need to kick me off your site, by all means go ahead.



"Admin+phxasp.com" <admin@phxasp.com> wrote:
Re: Meeting you this week end Why are you ranting at me?
I don’t get it. I’m not angry why are you.
Later


 

On 11/9/07 9:04 AM, "ana" <ana_bang_bang@yahoo.com> wrote:

1. you tried to make me feel guilty for not giving you my time for free by accusing me of not caring about the industry.... i also consider that a negative judgement upon my character.

"I guess I was mistaken to think you would be interested in furthering the betterment of the ladies community"

2. you implied i was a man hater. ...rhetorical question or not, theres no reason for it to be there unless its an implication of something.

"what is the opposite of misogynist?"

3. asking me if i run an agency as if i didnt already freely tell you and discuss it with you at length. i take that as a slightly veiled threat to kick me off your independents only website....

4. i have zero idea what you are trying to tell me here since i wasnt offering you anything.
"I’ll pass."

i dont think that telling someone "no" warrants all that. i never ask anybody for anything except to have respect for what i do for a living by expecting to compensate me when requesting my time. just like any other professional would.


i've been told that im very perceptive but maybe you're innocent and im just having pms. since you're not the only person im currently disagreeing with, this is a distinct possibility.

regardless, by all means, if you think i can provide some insight to the issue at hand, please feel welcome to call me on my private line xxxxxxxx
i am not planning on taking biz calls today cuz im going to harness the energy from my senseless rage to convert my office into a studio.



 

I apologize I spoke in frustration. I am looking toward you as an informed advisor. I will call you tomorrow when the drugs wear off. I had surgery at 10am today




 



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his story is that i got kicked off his board because a friend of mine was causing drama not because i refused to do a free lunch.