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Setting up your website with a FTP account

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screening clients

how to deal with a sleazeball

I'd rather help you than have you feed the sharks that are constantly swimming around us. I'm honest, fairly friendly, and i genuinely enjoying helping people so you're welcome to email me and I'll give you whatever advice i can but i dont sugar coat things so dont be offended if i tell you the truth instead of feeding your insecure ego. I'm a pretty good teacher but if you're not honest and dedicated to your work, dont bother me, I really have zero tolerance for stupid shit. I'm really not into women and yes I've tried quite a few, however, I hate to see people getting taken advantage of, so you can trust me as a friend. Karma is way more important to me than money ever will be and i hope you feel the same way. Have no doubt in your pretty lil head that i will put a serious whoop ass on you if tell the men i really haven't known everything since i was 4 years old, that's just an act i put on for them and really i'm still learning and making mistakes too.

The first thing you need to know is that nobody will make you or break you but you. I do everything myself from taking my own pics, website design, verifying my clients and keeping myself safe despite the countless number of sharks who've tried to convince me that i needed them for something. I just got my first computer 3 years ago, and i taught myself everything from scratch and i do just fine, sometimes i actually rock but most importantly, when it comes to my life, i always rule. 99% of the people offering to help you are only looking to help themselves so its best if you just start relying on the 1 person who you can trust to have your best interest at heart, yourself. Your instincts are by far your greatest survival tool and by definition they cannot be wrong, learn to listen to them. Trust yourself instead of trusting the predators looking to feed on your insecurities and maybe there wont be so many of them for us to worry about. Read this chatlog for some insight as to what they really think of you. Maybe they dont want pics of you because they are so in love with your beauty but read this article to find out 1 possible reason why they really want your pics. I built the majority of maggies's website without her sending me 1 pic. Now, granted its not a great site but still, its really not necessary for you to send anyone pics in order for them to build a site for you, the pics can be in added in later. I also learn a lot from reading the webmaster posts at http://www.gofuckyourself.com.

There are a lot of very nice people in this industry, not everyone is out to fuck you but just don't believe everything you're told without doing some research first. A good site for research is http://www.sexwork.com which is ran by Dave of Phoenix. I've met Dave at several private list functions over the past 3 years and he is really a genuine guy who's not just out for himself. Advertising on the private list is free, all you have to do is send him an email with your description and it'll go out to private list members that following Sunday and you'll find that the private list members are some of the nicest and most respectful clients you'll ever meet....

http://www.dangerzone411.com very useful, lots of tips and tricks, the most widely used and reliable national client blacklist database... . discussion board format.......only female providers are allowed on this site and it is not easy to get approved for membership... if you are denied, dont take it personally, try again at another time ........ free 2 week trial

http://www.nationalblacklist.com open to the public for a fee

http://www.theeroticreview.com providers only forum... if you have more than 3 reviews on ter, you should have access to the providers only forum however it is not given to you automatically.. you must send an email to admin@theeroticreview.com and request provider status.. this will also give you access to the ter private mail system and link your reviews to your username when posting on the boards. ... .. you will find lots of useful information in here.. keep in mind this forum is also accessed by agency owners so there is alot of information that gets posted in dangerzone that doesnt get posted here.

if you see a client's name you recognize on any blacklist please please please do not tell him. .it puts the girl who put him on there in possible physical danger. .. no client is ever going to say, 'yeah i belong on the blackllist' ... they will just try to get their name removed and they will most likely start trouble for the girl who put them there... just because you know him and you think he's a nice guy doesnt mean he is a nice guy to everyone... remember, even charles manson was nice to some people and has some people who even to this day will swear he's great.... nobody is an asshole to everyone... anytime you feel tempted to tell a client you saw his name on a blacklist, take a stroll down memory lane.